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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

16.06.2025 00:34

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

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She married twice! .

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

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I was scared of men, in general

I did it because my mum asked me too!

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Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Why am I so triggered and depressed over a minor thing?

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

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I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Comes on , in middle age.

I never cut or harmed myself..

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Put me off passion for life!!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

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Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I couldn’t, believe it.

Can you name an example of bad parenting?

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Why is my ex still keeping in touch with me even though she dumped me?

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

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But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

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For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

She wouldn,t have been !

So whats the point in blame.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

My family never makes their pension either.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Why did i forgive my father ?

All the time i was locked up.

So, i spoilt her more .

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I write beautiful poetry .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Who then, do I blame.?

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Im dying but, im not bitter.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Im still living with it.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I said to her

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I was seconnd youngest,

I think the readers, may guess!

My life is so biszare .

Ive learnt so much.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I will be 64.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

He resisted the act ,that day.

I was 9 years of age.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

What did i know ?

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I don,t even have a pension.

But it wasn’t much.

Would this be the day?

As i do to all so called friends.?

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

And i lived it daily.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

It was going to be , some day.

But, we were locked up after school.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

She was in good health!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

(And it was in our own minds.)

We were not on the streets..

He knew the spot.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I waited trembling.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

She loved him until the end.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Especially a lifetime of it.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I was very sick at this time too.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

He was dying to do it , i knew.

One cannot live in the past .

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

This is soul school!.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Was to survive, this bastard.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I could never make a relationship work though!

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

But ive been too sick for many years..

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

She found it foreign!.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I have no regrets .

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

We all went to grammer schools

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

When she asked me how she looked .